We applied to several private schools before our daughter took the ERB. I’m so nervous that she won’t score well and we’ll be knocked out of consideration by many of the schools we applied to. How important are the scores in the overall decision?
For many competitive private schools, Educational Records Bureau testing scores can play a very important role in the admissions process, but they are usually not the only factor schools consider.
Private school admissions committees typically review applications holistically, meaning they look at the “whole child,” including:
- ERB or admissions test scores,
- school readiness,
- classroom observations,
- parent interviews,
- teacher recommendations,
- social and emotional development,
- and how well the child appears to fit the school’s environment and philosophy.
Why ERB Scores Matter
In highly competitive admissions environments, strong ERB scores can help demonstrate that a child is academically ready for the program’s rigor. Schools often receive far more qualified applicants than they have available seats, so testing becomes one important way to compare applicants consistently.
That said, admissions officers understand that:
- young children can have off days,
- testing environments can feel unfamiliar,
- and no single score perfectly captures a child’s intelligence, creativity, personality, or long-term potential.
Schools Are Looking for More Than Numbers
Private schools are not simply trying to build classes filled with the highest-scoring test-takers. They are often looking for students who will:
- thrive socially and emotionally,
- participate positively in the classroom,
- show curiosity and enthusiasm,
- work well with peers,
- and fit the culture of the school community.
A child with slightly lower scores but strong teacher recommendations, positive classroom behavior, and a great personality may still be a very appealing candidate.
What Parents Can Control
At this point, the healthiest thing parents can do is focus less on the score itself and more on helping their child feel:
- confident,
- rested,
- supported,
- and emotionally secure.
Children often pick up on parental stress quickly. When testing becomes emotionally “high stakes” at home, children may feel pressure that can affect performance.
Keep Perspective
It’s completely normal to feel nervous during the admissions process. Private school admissions can feel highly competitive and emotionally intense for families.
But one test score does not define your child’s future. Many children who are not accepted into one particular school go on to thrive academically and socially elsewhere. Often, the best school fit is the environment where a child feels supported, challenged, and happy — not simply the most selective option.
In the end, ERB scores are important, but they are only one piece of a much larger admissions picture.

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